启悯和高氏于九月订亲<span class='character' style='background-image:url(/img/1349144082704/12786725/9174619874132210594.png)'></span>只是问名、纳吉等程序走下来也得有个大半年<span class='character' style='background-image:url(/img/1349144082704/12786725/9174619874132196524.png)'></span>启悯向皇上请旨<span class='character' style='background-image:url(/img/1349144082704/12786725/9174619874132210594.png)'></span>想将婚期安排在高氏及笄之后<span class='character' style='background-image:url(/img/1349144082704/12786725/9174619874132210594.png)'></span>这样一来<span class='character' style='background-image:url(/img/1349144082704/12786725/9174619874132210594.png)'></span>他们的婚期便定在了明年的腊月<span class='character' style='background-image:url(/img/1349144082704/12786725/9174619874132210594.png)'></span>有足够的时间准备了<span class='character' style='background-image:url(/img/1349144082704/12786725/9174619874132196524.png)'></span>
皇后虽然没能如愿以偿将远房侄女儿嫁给启悯<span class='ch